I had a few days to think about the situation with John S. Hutchison, I just needed to apologize. See I thought the party was for my Mommy.
John set me straight he had his opinions, see it was about him and Gay. He made sure in his cruel drunken state that, Mom's happiness is not the important things in life, but that his opinion of Chuck is the most important.
Never mind that Chuck is totally taking care of Mom, where for the first time in her life she can have her dogs, flowers and the white picket fence. No! See the thing is John and Gay's opinions are the ultimate of what is right. Don't worry about the fact that when Mom had a fall he was there, when Mom's eyes became more and more difficult for her to see, Chuck made sure she was at the ER and emergency that night and next day.
We need to understand that the day after Mom's wedding Mom should have told Chuck to leave because David and Gay are the Important ones.
John's lack of knowledge due to his childish state of mind reflect the true nature as to how we all need to think. So John and Gay your right.
Mom needs to give up her happiness for YOU. So she can go to work at her age because, she would still be working if she did not meet that cranky protective old guy who gets her everything she wants, with true care and concern of her happiness.
Again I say, Your Right John and Gay.
I only hope your children will treat you the same. God Bless you, because you both need it.